19 jan 2010

getting to know oneself
can a person b absolutely self less n ask for no gain?
when u do something do you ask yourself why you r doing it?.is the first thing that comes to your mind the feeling of gaining something or does it stay neutral...everybody absolutely everybody if they ever r seen doin something for some1 else remember there is always a gain involved..be it the most self less thing imaginable..
i wont justify myself.. you can do that well enough...think of the most selfless thing you have ever done..n think about wat was running through your head at those momments...if ur plan was simply and only to help as most of you would say at the momment ...you must av atleast thought this particular thing "someday when i need help that person is sure to b there"...didnt you???
as far as i have seen only animals r capable of such wonderous selfless ness...they r there when u need them ...you can go n sit with them for hours n they will never leave your side..n they never ask for nething on your part..if you pat tem they r happy enough if you dont it doesnt mean that they will run away...these selfless creatures, they dont possess the brain or might of humans.. no dreams no colours...but god sent them to us...to teach us love...such that we never forget how these creatures are to you no matter how u treat them ..if you call them they will always come...do u remember hitting your dog...then do you remember how when u needed him in the dark he was there in a flash...
i know i have it in me to be like this(SOMEDAY)...to give with no gain in mind.. to b true to everyone..to be simple.. to never have a hidden face.. no facade, no show,no expectations...simple shades of grey..but still every1 makes mistakes...every one is selfish..
can we with our complicated multilayered brains ever be like that?...can we ever learn to love n care so selflessly that people just cant help but want us around?..
no matter how beaten u r..always b the shoulder..
no matter how hungry you are ,..always share the last loaf..
no matter if no1 listens to you..always b the ears n heart they want you to b
....if no1 ever understand you...never missunderstand them...
dream about it..cuz thats the last straw to a complete life..the last piece to life's puzzel...
life aint complete untill uv given..."THE FINAL SACRIFICE"..

luv n luck
Ridhi